Motherhood and its vulnerabilities…

Raising children can be quite hair raising…no pun intended… the advices (the welcome and the not so welcome) starts pouring in the moment you become pregnant… the are as varied as can be…from the right food, sleep posture, television watching, etc etc the list is endless; once the bundle of joy comes home the list keeps expanding…from the nappy to the happy meal…you are constantly made to look and feel inadequate…and it is drilled into your head that any and every small thing (unpleasant in nature) that happens to your child is because of your carelessness…you never get recognition (forget appreciation or accolades) if the child is well behaved, playful and on the healthier (nice and plump) side…for me personally Spam guard was very handy (continues to be so) i.e. I used only those advice that I was happy implementing….and that too from family or very close friends…at the end of the day one can just do things to the best of their abilities… and that’s what I did…

Here is my suggestion to all you new mothers and yet to be mothers…. Unless you learn to just listen to yourself you’d forever be wondering if you are doing the right thing…so do whatever you feel comfortable doing…